MAINTAIN FIRMLY THE UTMOST UNITY BETWEEN BROTHERS AND LET CHARITY REIGN ALWAYS AMONGST YOU

I have been sorrowfully afflicted on learning that the two young Fathers do not get along with each other as two good brothers should, especially when they find themselves so far from their common father. Oh, that is insupportable! What matters any difference in character when they should have but one heart and one soul? … Maintain firmly the utmost unity between brothers and let charity reign always amongst you. Would you wish to lose the merit of so many sacrifices made for God?

Letter to Fr. Pascal Ricard in Oregon, 10 February 1849, EO I n 110

REFLECTION

“You don’t choose your family. They are God’s gift to you, as you are to them.” (Desmond Tutu)

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1 Response to MAINTAIN FIRMLY THE UTMOST UNITY BETWEEN BROTHERS AND LET CHARITY REIGN ALWAYS AMONGST YOU

  1. Eleanor Rabnett, Lay Oblate Associate says:

    An Oblate once told me when there is a small hole or loose thread in the tapestry of the community that if left untended the threads will loosen and break and it will eventually unravel leaving only a pile of loose threads. It matters not if the tear is at the bottom, the top, or even the centre: it eventually grows and widens due to the shift in weight for the rest of the tapestry.

    It was/is the Holy Spirit who gave Eugene the Charism to share with his community, no matter where they were in the world. Eugene wanted that gift from God to be shared among all, leaving no one untouched. It was not a matter of growing a community of little mini-imitators, but rather of guiding them to love all others, especially those closest to themselves in the Oblate Congregation. “Charity, charity, charity” is what Eugene was saying as he was dying.

    A few years before I retired I found myself having to go up against another because I had been appointed to be the interim manager of our unit. She felt she deserved it more than me for many reasons. It was not a happy time for either of us or for our colleagues and at the end of the 6-month term the position was given to another who was truly able to perform that job well. He got the position permanently and the tension in our combined units improved. The staff person with which I had struggled? We became good friends and we worked together until I retired.

    It was love that Eugene wanted for his sons and daughters.

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